"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iChris said:
My situation looks like this:

About a two weeks ago I notice this girl keep keeps checking me out. So I start talkign to her a little bit everyday, just casually. She starts warming up to me really quick. So I ask for her number - no problem.

So last saterday I start messaging her for while or so, asking about herself. She keeps the convo going for a while, then finally asks why I'm asking these questions. I told her that it was because I liked her.

She replies that I don't even know her so I tell her thats why I want to get to know her better. I havn't gotten a reply since then and it's monday. What should I do?
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The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
The simple answer is that you fell into the normal, routine guy. You didn't stir her pot, so to speak. You probably made it seem as if you wanted to discuss her thoughts and feelings like a friggin' homo friend she has.

Turn it around jack. Amp it up a peg or twelve. Have fun with her.
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So you think I still have a chance with this one?
 
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Say you sorry for sound like a "freakin homo" and spark a new good conversation!!!! YAAA!!!!
 
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You should be special:
Don't tell her you like her turn the sides:
You should reply to the question:
"Why are you asking these qustions" with:
"Why are YOU asking that?".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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