"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey guy's I got a question I need help with!
Ok last weekend on Saturday I talked to this girl that I really liked in HS I saw her working at some store went in and said "I saw you last weekend and kicked myself for not meeting you earlier" we talked for a while and then I left becasue I had more important things to do. Now what I need your opinion on is what should I do now, I would really like to fvk close this chick since I had a crush on her in HS and then be done with it. I think she's a 8.9 very very good smile and nice butt, you think I should go back and talk to her and try to get her to go on a date with me or should I just forget her? It doesnt matter either way just want your opinion if going back this tomorrow looks desperate or not. Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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anyone?
 
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j0n024 said:
we talked for a while and then I left becasue I had more important things to do.
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If you wanted to sleep with her, why did you leave?

The guy in line behind you probably got her number and slept with her that day.
 
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Yeah I wouldn't go back next day, that would look way too desperate. Honestly I'd wait at least a week before going back there, depending on what kind of a store it is I might even wait longer.

You really should have closed the number the first time but what's done, or not done, is done.

This is a longshot and I don't really recommend it, unless you're very good at maintaining the power in the relationship--you could always call the store when she's there and talk to her. There was one time I did that to get a number, half for an experiment and half just because I didn't want to go back.

I ended up getting her number and we went on a few dates, but she started off thinking she was hot sh*t since I actually called her work to talk to her. I had to knock her down a few pegs to bring her back down to earth, and once I did that all was good.
 
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Always ask her to do something with you or get a number before you leave!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hehe ya sorry guy's but I was doing something important but now that I think about it I cant recall lol. I did this last weekend and am going out Dj'ng tonight so do you think it will look desperate it has been a week. Next time I'll number close before I leave a set, thanks guys.
 
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