"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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need help with situation!

j0n024

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Hey guy's I got a question I need help with!
Ok last weekend on Saturday I talked to this girl that I really liked in HS I saw her working at some store went in and said "I saw you last weekend and kicked myself for not meeting you earlier" we talked for a while and then I left becasue I had more important things to do. Now what I need your opinion on is what should I do now, I would really like to fvk close this chick since I had a crush on her in HS and then be done with it. I think she's a 8.9 very very good smile and nice butt, you think I should go back and talk to her and try to get her to go on a date with me or should I just forget her? It doesnt matter either way just want your opinion if going back this tomorrow looks desperate or not. Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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anyone?
 

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j0n024 said:
we talked for a while and then I left becasue I had more important things to do.


If you wanted to sleep with her, why did you leave?

The guy in line behind you probably got her number and slept with her that day.
 

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Yeah I wouldn't go back next day, that would look way too desperate. Honestly I'd wait at least a week before going back there, depending on what kind of a store it is I might even wait longer.

You really should have closed the number the first time but what's done, or not done, is done.

This is a longshot and I don't really recommend it, unless you're very good at maintaining the power in the relationship--you could always call the store when she's there and talk to her. There was one time I did that to get a number, half for an experiment and half just because I didn't want to go back.

I ended up getting her number and we went on a few dates, but she started off thinking she was hot sh*t since I actually called her work to talk to her. I had to knock her down a few pegs to bring her back down to earth, and once I did that all was good.
 
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Always ask her to do something with you or get a number before you leave!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hehe ya sorry guy's but I was doing something important but now that I think about it I cant recall lol. I did this last weekend and am going out Dj'ng tonight so do you think it will look desperate it has been a week. Next time I'll number close before I leave a set, thanks guys.
 
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