"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need help with situation!

j0n024

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Hey guy's I got a question I need help with!
Ok last weekend on Saturday I talked to this girl that I really liked in HS I saw her working at some store went in and said "I saw you last weekend and kicked myself for not meeting you earlier" we talked for a while and then I left becasue I had more important things to do. Now what I need your opinion on is what should I do now, I would really like to fvk close this chick since I had a crush on her in HS and then be done with it. I think she's a 8.9 very very good smile and nice butt, you think I should go back and talk to her and try to get her to go on a date with me or should I just forget her? It doesnt matter either way just want your opinion if going back this tomorrow looks desperate or not. Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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j0n024

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anyone?
 

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j0n024 said:
we talked for a while and then I left becasue I had more important things to do.


If you wanted to sleep with her, why did you leave?

The guy in line behind you probably got her number and slept with her that day.
 

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Yeah I wouldn't go back next day, that would look way too desperate. Honestly I'd wait at least a week before going back there, depending on what kind of a store it is I might even wait longer.

You really should have closed the number the first time but what's done, or not done, is done.

This is a longshot and I don't really recommend it, unless you're very good at maintaining the power in the relationship--you could always call the store when she's there and talk to her. There was one time I did that to get a number, half for an experiment and half just because I didn't want to go back.

I ended up getting her number and we went on a few dates, but she started off thinking she was hot sh*t since I actually called her work to talk to her. I had to knock her down a few pegs to bring her back down to earth, and once I did that all was good.
 
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Always ask her to do something with you or get a number before you leave!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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j0n024

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hehe ya sorry guy's but I was doing something important but now that I think about it I cant recall lol. I did this last weekend and am going out Dj'ng tonight so do you think it will look desperate it has been a week. Next time I'll number close before I leave a set, thanks guys.
 
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