There is this girl that I know really likes me. She lives about 70 miles from me. Well she lost her cell phone and hasn't got a new one yet. Her parents can't find out about me so I can't call her home phone. She wants to talk over MSN but I am highly against in except for rare occasions in relationships. Her friend has a cell phone and they are together some. I don't want her to lose interest by not contacting her, but I don't like using MSN. Should I just call her friend every once in a while and see if she is with her?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need help with girl from different town
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
why can't her parents know about you?
unless you just got out of the joint, all you have to do is make a good first impression
unless you just got out of the joint, all you have to do is make a good first impression
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
don't call her friend to see if shes there, thats horrible. her friend has feelings too dude
either next her because her parents WILL find out eventually.
or
next her because she lives 70 miles from you and you can't ever contact her
either next her because her parents WILL find out eventually.
or
next her because she lives 70 miles from you and you can't ever contact her
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I agree.
And if you really wanted to talk to her you would just talk to her on MSN. It's better than nothing. Plus, then you could IM her and have her call you, so you wouldn't be calling her home phone.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.