That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She is the one that started flirting with Me and she keeps it going.sodbuster said:
It doesn't matter; the bottom line is that if she was interested, she would have given you the number. Women flirt for any number of reasons (attention, validation, to tease guys, to practice etc.). It doesn't necessarily mean they are interested.timmylivingalie said:
Just because a woman is flirting with you does not mean she's interested. Many women flirt because they like attention from men...regardless of whether they are attracted to these men. Plus, being a cashier is not the most exciting job in the world. She's flirting with customers because she's bored.timmylivingalie said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I know this but I have noticed she flirts with me and ignores other guys. Yesterday I was in line with several younger dudes but she completely ignored them and flirted with me.Bokanovsky said: