"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Need help with cashier

timmylivingalie

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I am a regular customer in this gas station. For the last five or six weeks the minute I walk in the cashier probaly a hb7 or hb7.5 starts busting my balls and we flirt back in forth for a few minutes with alot of tension. Two weeks ago I told her to give me the reciept for the gas and write her number on it. She wouldnt do it. What should I do to take this to next level?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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sodbuster

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She didn't give you her number when you asked? Do nothing about this. There IS no THIS. 99% chance she just liked the attention,but doesn't want the relationship.
 

timmylivingalie

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sodbuster said:
She didn't give you her number when you asked? Do nothing about this. There IS no THIS. 99% chance she just liked the attention,but doesn't want the relationship.
She is the one that started flirting with Me and she keeps it going.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
She is the one that started flirting with Me and she keeps it going.
It doesn't matter; the bottom line is that if she was interested, she would have given you the number. Women flirt for any number of reasons (attention, validation, to tease guys, to practice etc.). It doesn't necessarily mean they are interested.
This is a lost cause. Move on and pursue other projects.
 

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timmylivingalie said:
She is the one that started flirting with Me and she keeps it going.
Just because a woman is flirting with you does not mean she's interested. Many women flirt because they like attention from men...regardless of whether they are attracted to these men. Plus, being a cashier is not the most exciting job in the world. She's flirting with customers because she's bored.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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timmylivingalie

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Bokanovsky said:
Just because a woman is flirting with you does not mean she's interested. Many women flirt because they like attention from men...regardless of whether they are attracted to these men. Plus, being a cashier is not the most exciting job in the world. She's flirting with customers because she's bored.
I know this but I have noticed she flirts with me and ignores other guys. Yesterday I was in line with several younger dudes but she completely ignored them and flirted with me.
 

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Flirting means NOTHING! I've had women sit on my lap,rub their boobs against me, take my phone out of my pocket and call their phone so they have my number.... and never got a date with them.
 
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