Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She is the one that started flirting with Me and she keeps it going.sodbuster said:
It doesn't matter; the bottom line is that if she was interested, she would have given you the number. Women flirt for any number of reasons (attention, validation, to tease guys, to practice etc.). It doesn't necessarily mean they are interested.timmylivingalie said:
Just because a woman is flirting with you does not mean she's interested. Many women flirt because they like attention from men...regardless of whether they are attracted to these men. Plus, being a cashier is not the most exciting job in the world. She's flirting with customers because she's bored.timmylivingalie said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I know this but I have noticed she flirts with me and ignores other guys. Yesterday I was in line with several younger dudes but she completely ignored them and flirted with me.Bokanovsky said: