so theres this girl that i work with who has shown me some very clear signs of interest. i would like to pursue her but im not sure what my next course of action should be. i work in a restaurant so i dont get very much free time to talk to her since were always busy. also i dont wanna mess things up with her because then things will be kinda awkward at work, which is one reason why im hesitant about pursuing. what should i do in this case?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
need help with a girl that i work with?
- Thread starter djjon
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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your thinking to much. if shes showing signals, in your down time (if any? ) or after work strike up a small convo and grab her number to set up the date. easy man. oh and relax 