so theres this girl that i work with who has shown me some very clear signs of interest. i would like to pursue her but im not sure what my next course of action should be. i work in a restaurant so i dont get very much free time to talk to her since were always busy. also i dont wanna mess things up with her because then things will be kinda awkward at work, which is one reason why im hesitant about pursuing. what should i do in this case?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
need help with a girl that i work with?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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your thinking to much. if shes showing signals, in your down time (if any? ) or after work strike up a small convo and grab her number to set up the date. easy man. oh and relax 