so theres this girl that i work with who has shown me some very clear signs of interest. i would like to pursue her but im not sure what my next course of action should be. i work in a restaurant so i dont get very much free time to talk to her since were always busy. also i dont wanna mess things up with her because then things will be kinda awkward at work, which is one reason why im hesitant about pursuing. what should i do in this case?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
need help with a girl that i work with?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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your thinking to much. if shes showing signals, in your down time (if any? ) or after work strike up a small convo and grab her number to set up the date. easy man. oh and relax 