so theres this girl that i work with who has shown me some very clear signs of interest. i would like to pursue her but im not sure what my next course of action should be. i work in a restaurant so i dont get very much free time to talk to her since were always busy. also i dont wanna mess things up with her because then things will be kinda awkward at work, which is one reason why im hesitant about pursuing. what should i do in this case?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
need help with a girl that i work with?
- Thread starter djjon
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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your thinking to much. if shes showing signals, in your down time (if any? ) or after work strike up a small convo and grab her number to set up the date. easy man. oh and relax 