"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need help with a 9 with a bf

JasonR

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Hi,

Well, i'll make this as brief as i can without missing anything important out.

I met this girl 2 years ago, she was 17, i was 21, i saw her 2 nights ago for the first time, and now shes 19 shes a little calmer, and even hotter than before.

She is still with the same guy, but says its on/off and she even saw someone while she was away at uni, which brings me on to the final point.

both her and i attend university, i go to london, she is in bath, but at the moment we are both back home in plymouth, which is where we met, and we both leave in a week.

well, we got on really really well, lots of contact, i got her number, and tonight, and tonight only i have the house to myself, and im not fussed about turning her into a gf, i dont like the idea of travelling too much, but well see. What i want to know is how i can get her over to my place tonight, and end up in my bed.

forgive me for being a slight sleaze, but i think she wants to, so what are the best ways to ask?

inviting her over for a meal is my initial thought, but hey, my thoughts havent done me too well thus far, so over to you guys

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JasonR

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even coming on these boards makes me more confident for some reason, haha.

i just keep thinking to myself that the worst thing that could happen is she says no, and why on earth should that matter? ive seen her once in 2 years, and im leaving in a week.

IT DOESNT MATTER
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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griffon65

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Originally posted by JasonR

well, we got on really really well, lots of contact, i got her number, and tonight, and tonight only i have the house to myself, and im not fussed about turning her into a gf, i dont like the idea of travelling too much, but well see. What i want to know is how i can get her over to my place tonight, and end up in my bed.

forgive me for being a slight sleaze, but i think she wants to, so what are the best ways to ask?


No offense but this is exactly the reason I DONT like posting anything that is too useful or detialed on this board. I hate seeing horney guys looking to just **** coming on here for tips.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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I would invite her out somewhere cheap-No expensive dinner dates. Then I'd make a move on her. If she won't go out with you or recirocate your advances then you'll know she's "kicking Tires" and you should just move on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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