"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need help with a 9 with a bf

JasonR

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Hi,

Well, i'll make this as brief as i can without missing anything important out.

I met this girl 2 years ago, she was 17, i was 21, i saw her 2 nights ago for the first time, and now shes 19 shes a little calmer, and even hotter than before.

She is still with the same guy, but says its on/off and she even saw someone while she was away at uni, which brings me on to the final point.

both her and i attend university, i go to london, she is in bath, but at the moment we are both back home in plymouth, which is where we met, and we both leave in a week.

well, we got on really really well, lots of contact, i got her number, and tonight, and tonight only i have the house to myself, and im not fussed about turning her into a gf, i dont like the idea of travelling too much, but well see. What i want to know is how i can get her over to my place tonight, and end up in my bed.

forgive me for being a slight sleaze, but i think she wants to, so what are the best ways to ask?

inviting her over for a meal is my initial thought, but hey, my thoughts havent done me too well thus far, so over to you guys

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JasonR

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even coming on these boards makes me more confident for some reason, haha.

i just keep thinking to myself that the worst thing that could happen is she says no, and why on earth should that matter? ive seen her once in 2 years, and im leaving in a week.

IT DOESNT MATTER
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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griffon65

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Originally posted by JasonR

well, we got on really really well, lots of contact, i got her number, and tonight, and tonight only i have the house to myself, and im not fussed about turning her into a gf, i dont like the idea of travelling too much, but well see. What i want to know is how i can get her over to my place tonight, and end up in my bed.

forgive me for being a slight sleaze, but i think she wants to, so what are the best ways to ask?


No offense but this is exactly the reason I DONT like posting anything that is too useful or detialed on this board. I hate seeing horney guys looking to just **** coming on here for tips.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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I would invite her out somewhere cheap-No expensive dinner dates. Then I'd make a move on her. If she won't go out with you or recirocate your advances then you'll know she's "kicking Tires" and you should just move on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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