"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need help *URGENT*

Bratt2230

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Sorry, Never mind. skip this topic


- for the guys who had alredy replied and read this post... i Guess i forgot why i started ignoring here, and why i startet dating others (-: ... i guess i am just a bit desperate, i will have to kill it somehow :)

Thanks to 5string once again, and the rest of you in here (-:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Warrior74

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Do what you really want to do, and then learn from it. Sure you might get burned (I think you will) but you hopefully will be smart enough to learn so next time you won't have to go through this again. So go for it. See what she wants. Tell us what happens. I have some thoughts on how it will go down, but I'll wait and see.
 

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Petari....have you forgotten what everyone told you last week about this girl?

Move on and see other women. This one has devalued you and is not worth your time.

She had her chance with you and blew it.
 

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*URGENT* There's nothing more "urgent" about this post than any of the other 1,000 "I'm obsessed with my ex" postings I read on here daily.

Aside from the fact that this is one of the most desperate things I've read on here in a while.
 

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You should just let this go. You hit the point of no return with the ""My life is going to end" thing. That killed something that was dying anyway, so don't beat yourself up.

I'm afraid your ego is playing big into this, my friend. You wanted her back specifically because you were denied her. I think the best thing you can do is to start to destroy that neediness inside you, that sense of having to get her back just because you are being denied.

Instead, shift your focus immediately to becoming a man who doesn't need one particular woman. Get into a mindset of absundance. There are loads of girls out there, and loads of girls who are better than her. You deserve a good woman, and you are above simply to reacting to the fact that she has a new boyfriend. It's not personal... It's game. It's reality.

You will free yourself if you let her go. I think your idea is perfect texting her back with your own frame, dictating when you are available. You're right, she probably will change her mind.

Take control of yourself and this situation. Declare it to be over, declare yourself to be a man who is worthy of much more, and declare yourself the KING of your life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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