"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need help *URGENT*

Bratt2230

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Sorry, Never mind. skip this topic


- for the guys who had alredy replied and read this post... i Guess i forgot why i started ignoring here, and why i startet dating others (-: ... i guess i am just a bit desperate, i will have to kill it somehow :)

Thanks to 5string once again, and the rest of you in here (-:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warrior74

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Do what you really want to do, and then learn from it. Sure you might get burned (I think you will) but you hopefully will be smart enough to learn so next time you won't have to go through this again. So go for it. See what she wants. Tell us what happens. I have some thoughts on how it will go down, but I'll wait and see.
 

5string

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Petari....have you forgotten what everyone told you last week about this girl?

Move on and see other women. This one has devalued you and is not worth your time.

She had her chance with you and blew it.
 

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*URGENT* There's nothing more "urgent" about this post than any of the other 1,000 "I'm obsessed with my ex" postings I read on here daily.

Aside from the fact that this is one of the most desperate things I've read on here in a while.
 

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You should just let this go. You hit the point of no return with the ""My life is going to end" thing. That killed something that was dying anyway, so don't beat yourself up.

I'm afraid your ego is playing big into this, my friend. You wanted her back specifically because you were denied her. I think the best thing you can do is to start to destroy that neediness inside you, that sense of having to get her back just because you are being denied.

Instead, shift your focus immediately to becoming a man who doesn't need one particular woman. Get into a mindset of absundance. There are loads of girls out there, and loads of girls who are better than her. You deserve a good woman, and you are above simply to reacting to the fact that she has a new boyfriend. It's not personal... It's game. It's reality.

You will free yourself if you let her go. I think your idea is perfect texting her back with your own frame, dictating when you are available. You're right, she probably will change her mind.

Take control of yourself and this situation. Declare it to be over, declare yourself to be a man who is worthy of much more, and declare yourself the KING of your life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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