so this chick I met the other night I left her a comment on myspace you know the typical "how are you, did you have fun last night?" and she responded to me "it was fun... I went there again last night, it was gay night!" cause the club I took her too is gay night on saturdays. I invited her out on Wednesday so should I re-confirm our date in a comment like... "So Wednesday night right?" I dunno I just dunno what to write to her in the comment cause other people will see it too.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
need help thinking of a response
- Thread starter baurman
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sir I
Don Juan
baurman said:
relax.. you are allready making a big deal out of a simple responce and thinking about what others would think when they see your responce? don't message over the internet.. call her make the conv. short and relax
smooth guy
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