"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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need help thinking of a response

baurman

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so this chick I met the other night I left her a comment on myspace you know the typical "how are you, did you have fun last night?" and she responded to me "it was fun... I went there again last night, it was gay night!" cause the club I took her too is gay night on saturdays. I invited her out on Wednesday so should I re-confirm our date in a comment like... "So Wednesday night right?" I dunno I just dunno what to write to her in the comment cause other people will see it too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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baurman said:
so this chick I met the other night I left her a comment on myspace you know the typical "how are you, did you have fun last night?" and she responded to me "it was fun... I went there again last night, it was gay night!" cause the club I took her too is gay night on saturdays. I invited her out on Wednesday so should I re-confirm our date in a comment like... "So Wednesday night right?" I dunno I just dunno what to write to her in the comment cause other people will see it too.

relax.. you are allready making a big deal out of a simple responce and thinking about what others would think when they see your responce? don't message over the internet.. call her make the conv. short and relax ;)
 

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You'll make up for it on Wednesday
 
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