so this chick I met the other night I left her a comment on myspace you know the typical "how are you, did you have fun last night?" and she responded to me "it was fun... I went there again last night, it was gay night!" cause the club I took her too is gay night on saturdays. I invited her out on Wednesday so should I re-confirm our date in a comment like... "So Wednesday night right?" I dunno I just dunno what to write to her in the comment cause other people will see it too.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
need help thinking of a response
- Thread starter baurman
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sir I
Don Juan
baurman said:
relax.. you are allready making a big deal out of a simple responce and thinking about what others would think when they see your responce? don't message over the internet.. call her make the conv. short and relax
smooth guy
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You'll make up for it on Wednesday