"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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need help thinking of a response

baurman

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so this chick I met the other night I left her a comment on myspace you know the typical "how are you, did you have fun last night?" and she responded to me "it was fun... I went there again last night, it was gay night!" cause the club I took her too is gay night on saturdays. I invited her out on Wednesday so should I re-confirm our date in a comment like... "So Wednesday night right?" I dunno I just dunno what to write to her in the comment cause other people will see it too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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baurman said:
so this chick I met the other night I left her a comment on myspace you know the typical "how are you, did you have fun last night?" and she responded to me "it was fun... I went there again last night, it was gay night!" cause the club I took her too is gay night on saturdays. I invited her out on Wednesday so should I re-confirm our date in a comment like... "So Wednesday night right?" I dunno I just dunno what to write to her in the comment cause other people will see it too.

relax.. you are allready making a big deal out of a simple responce and thinking about what others would think when they see your responce? don't message over the internet.. call her make the conv. short and relax ;)
 

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You'll make up for it on Wednesday
 
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