"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJuanJnr

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Hi,

Heres abit about me :)

I am 17, live in England and i have just left school with good grades for a really good job. I hang out with the popular people and I am one of the main people in this group. However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuanJnr

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c'mon a few tips where to start and that mate ??

anyone have msn and would help please :)

thanks
 
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lol

DonJuanJnr said:
I hang out with the popular people
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Define popular, and who are these people?

However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
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Read the DJ Bible and David DeAngelo's C&F. Find 5-star rated posts in the Tips forum and read them.
 
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DonJuanJnr

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Throughout all school the group every1 wanted to be in and all the hot girls hung round with etc.

i am very charasmatic however ~I just change in the presence of girls.
 
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shaunuk

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DonJuanJnr, I live in England as well so I know what you mean by "popular crew". Drop me your MSN address mate, we'll talk.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alphamale1821

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the best way to be around these girls is simply confident and fun. Girls in the age group of high school- college age are all about having fun. Bring the fun and have the frame that they are just here for you to have more fun with and gurantee you will have fun with them. Just don't be afraid to make a move.
 
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