"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need Help Please!

DonJuanJnr

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Hi,

Heres abit about me :)

I am 17, live in England and i have just left school with good grades for a really good job. I hang out with the popular people and I am one of the main people in this group. However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonJuanJnr

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c'mon a few tips where to start and that mate ??

anyone have msn and would help please :)

thanks
 

sharkbeat

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lol

DonJuanJnr said:
I hang out with the popular people
Define popular, and who are these people?

However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
Read the DJ Bible and David DeAngelo's C&F. Find 5-star rated posts in the Tips forum and read them.
 

DonJuanJnr

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Throughout all school the group every1 wanted to be in and all the hot girls hung round with etc.

i am very charasmatic however ~I just change in the presence of girls.
 

shaunuk

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DonJuanJnr, I live in England as well so I know what you mean by "popular crew". Drop me your MSN address mate, we'll talk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alphamale1821

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the best way to be around these girls is simply confident and fun. Girls in the age group of high school- college age are all about having fun. Bring the fun and have the frame that they are just here for you to have more fun with and gurantee you will have fun with them. Just don't be afraid to make a move.
 
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