"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need Help Please!

DonJuanJnr

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Hi,

Heres abit about me :)

I am 17, live in England and i have just left school with good grades for a really good job. I hang out with the popular people and I am one of the main people in this group. However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanJnr

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c'mon a few tips where to start and that mate ??

anyone have msn and would help please :)

thanks
 

sharkbeat

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lol

DonJuanJnr said:
I hang out with the popular people
Define popular, and who are these people?

However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
Read the DJ Bible and David DeAngelo's C&F. Find 5-star rated posts in the Tips forum and read them.
 

DonJuanJnr

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Throughout all school the group every1 wanted to be in and all the hot girls hung round with etc.

i am very charasmatic however ~I just change in the presence of girls.
 

shaunuk

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DonJuanJnr, I live in England as well so I know what you mean by "popular crew". Drop me your MSN address mate, we'll talk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alphamale1821

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the best way to be around these girls is simply confident and fun. Girls in the age group of high school- college age are all about having fun. Bring the fun and have the frame that they are just here for you to have more fun with and gurantee you will have fun with them. Just don't be afraid to make a move.
 
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