"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need Help Please!

DonJuanJnr

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Hi,

Heres abit about me :)

I am 17, live in England and i have just left school with good grades for a really good job. I hang out with the popular people and I am one of the main people in this group. However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonJuanJnr

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c'mon a few tips where to start and that mate ??

anyone have msn and would help please :)

thanks
 

sharkbeat

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lol

DonJuanJnr said:
I hang out with the popular people
Define popular, and who are these people?

However i just can't act myself when hot girls are there and seem to choke when talkin to hot girls.

Also I am quite good looking, well groomed and well dressed as stated by alot of people but i still carnt seem to genrate interest girls are just not interested in me for sum reason and it really gets to me.

Is there anyone that could help me please.

I have been reading around the forum for a while but wanted to do this myself but i just need help please.

thanks
Read the DJ Bible and David DeAngelo's C&F. Find 5-star rated posts in the Tips forum and read them.
 

DonJuanJnr

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Throughout all school the group every1 wanted to be in and all the hot girls hung round with etc.

i am very charasmatic however ~I just change in the presence of girls.
 

shaunuk

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DonJuanJnr, I live in England as well so I know what you mean by "popular crew". Drop me your MSN address mate, we'll talk.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alphamale1821

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the best way to be around these girls is simply confident and fun. Girls in the age group of high school- college age are all about having fun. Bring the fun and have the frame that they are just here for you to have more fun with and gurantee you will have fun with them. Just don't be afraid to make a move.
 
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