"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need help on this one guys

a-rookie

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just got out of long distance bad relationship,in the midst of things my dad was looking for someone for work. a friend told me that she knew someone.this someone turned out to be a model type chick, classy but very stuck up.My pops gave her the job.I went out on one date she talked about her previous last bad relationships.I tried KINO but she didn't respond.

I left for school.
I text message her week later ,kindah teasing her and that I went out and reminded me of the restaurant we ate and thats why I text her.

I am far and will return for vacations from school in december.
I don't know how to proceed we exchange numbers email.
I like to hook up with her booty.but don't want to look needy nor want to get into another LDR that will fail.
should i email her or call her, how frequently or should i cool down wait to see her again in december.
anyone ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Forget about her. If you just got out of a long term relationship, you should be spending time with yourself. Focus on yourself for a while, you sound like one of those guys that gets over a women by jumping into the next relationship.
 

a-rookie

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Thanks for taking the time to posting up ,Bro.
you are right on the money, I guess I didn't see it that way but you're right.
She didn't respond back anyways.
 
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