"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need help on this one guys

a-rookie

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just got out of long distance bad relationship,in the midst of things my dad was looking for someone for work. a friend told me that she knew someone.this someone turned out to be a model type chick, classy but very stuck up.My pops gave her the job.I went out on one date she talked about her previous last bad relationships.I tried KINO but she didn't respond.

I left for school.
I text message her week later ,kindah teasing her and that I went out and reminded me of the restaurant we ate and thats why I text her.

I am far and will return for vacations from school in december.
I don't know how to proceed we exchange numbers email.
I like to hook up with her booty.but don't want to look needy nor want to get into another LDR that will fail.
should i email her or call her, how frequently or should i cool down wait to see her again in december.
anyone ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Forget about her. If you just got out of a long term relationship, you should be spending time with yourself. Focus on yourself for a while, you sound like one of those guys that gets over a women by jumping into the next relationship.
 

a-rookie

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Thanks for taking the time to posting up ,Bro.
you are right on the money, I guess I didn't see it that way but you're right.
She didn't respond back anyways.
 
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