"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need help on this one guys

a-rookie

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just got out of long distance bad relationship,in the midst of things my dad was looking for someone for work. a friend told me that she knew someone.this someone turned out to be a model type chick, classy but very stuck up.My pops gave her the job.I went out on one date she talked about her previous last bad relationships.I tried KINO but she didn't respond.

I left for school.
I text message her week later ,kindah teasing her and that I went out and reminded me of the restaurant we ate and thats why I text her.

I am far and will return for vacations from school in december.
I don't know how to proceed we exchange numbers email.
I like to hook up with her booty.but don't want to look needy nor want to get into another LDR that will fail.
should i email her or call her, how frequently or should i cool down wait to see her again in december.
anyone ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Forget about her. If you just got out of a long term relationship, you should be spending time with yourself. Focus on yourself for a while, you sound like one of those guys that gets over a women by jumping into the next relationship.
 

a-rookie

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Thanks for taking the time to posting up ,Bro.
you are right on the money, I guess I didn't see it that way but you're right.
She didn't respond back anyways.
 
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