hi. i met this popular HB8 two months ago and we study together for a class every two weeks. two weeks after we met, i asked her to have dinner with me. she replied with "sure but as friends." so that is cue that i should NEXT her but i decided to just be friends. I still like her but i'm not going out of my way for her. i got other girls on the side. time to move on but we still study together as friends. lately, she is giving me mixed signals. for example, calling me up to see how my day was, sleeping on my shoulder one time while studying, taking my chapstick and using it while i was about to use it, etc. i didn't mind and just did my own thing. however, is that signs that she is starting to like me or she just wants attention because i'm not giving it to her? any advice will be appreciated.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
need help on this girl
- Thread starter dude04
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Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
sounds like you're her new girlfriend.
start being the boss around her, but make sure to next her, unless you like the attention and want to stay friends.
start being the boss around her, but make sure to next her, unless you like the attention and want to stay friends.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
good advice.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Yes it seems to me your are in the friends zone, she probably will go to you to help her out when her "Real" boyfriend treats her like cr4p. I would try to show her that she isnt going to use your for her own selfish reasons, I mean why let her use your chap stick? I mean you dont know where those lips have been and it is an easy way to get herpes...but it is still your decision. Good luck and you should show her that if she isnt going to at least give you a shot then you should next her sorry ass.
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Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
thanks. are you actually a girl?iqqi said:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
I am god.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Spoken like a true UG who doesn't know what shes talking aboutiqqi said:I am god.
Also like someone non-religious haha.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
You are going to hell!Grand Wizzard Alamar said:Spoken like a true UG who doesn't know what shes talking about
Also like someone non-religious haha.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
yeah I'll be with the flaming hot chicks who died young while you're with the crusty ugly old AFC loser men up in heaven. hahaiqqi said:
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