"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need help on some wardrobe choices for tonight

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I bought like $500 worth of clothes tonight and I need some help how how to style myself tonight (and I suppose in the future).

The first question, for casually going out to the bar or club, if I wear a collared shirt somewhat like this, http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3555872&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 but without the zipper and short sleeves. Should I wear a white undershirt or wifebeater or should I just go with no undershirt and unbutton 1-2 for the top buttons? (I'm fit and have a nice body).

Next question, for the same type of button up shirt, does it look better to tuck the shirt in and expose the belt (very nice belt) such as this: http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3316392&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 or just have the shirt untucked such as this: http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3463481&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 ?

Next question, whats better in which situation, a bright t-shirt with a some interesting design such as thishttp://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3555882&cp=3075215.3075422.3075429, or the clean button up type shirts ive been showing before?

Next question, glasses and watches, what do you think? Always wear them or only with certain outfits?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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razkay said:
Wear a button down shirt and show off the belt.
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Thanks for the advice. Should I wear a t-shirt under it or show off the chest?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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