"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need help on some wardrobe choices for tonight

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I bought like $500 worth of clothes tonight and I need some help how how to style myself tonight (and I suppose in the future).

The first question, for casually going out to the bar or club, if I wear a collared shirt somewhat like this, http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3555872&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 but without the zipper and short sleeves. Should I wear a white undershirt or wifebeater or should I just go with no undershirt and unbutton 1-2 for the top buttons? (I'm fit and have a nice body).

Next question, for the same type of button up shirt, does it look better to tuck the shirt in and expose the belt (very nice belt) such as this: http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3316392&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 or just have the shirt untucked such as this: http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3463481&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 ?

Next question, whats better in which situation, a bright t-shirt with a some interesting design such as thishttp://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3555882&cp=3075215.3075422.3075429, or the clean button up type shirts ive been showing before?

Next question, glasses and watches, what do you think? Always wear them or only with certain outfits?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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razkay said:
Wear a button down shirt and show off the belt.
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Thanks for the advice. Should I wear a t-shirt under it or show off the chest?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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