"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need help on some wardrobe choices for tonight

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I bought like $500 worth of clothes tonight and I need some help how how to style myself tonight (and I suppose in the future).

The first question, for casually going out to the bar or club, if I wear a collared shirt somewhat like this, http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3555872&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 but without the zipper and short sleeves. Should I wear a white undershirt or wifebeater or should I just go with no undershirt and unbutton 1-2 for the top buttons? (I'm fit and have a nice body).

Next question, for the same type of button up shirt, does it look better to tuck the shirt in and expose the belt (very nice belt) such as this: http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3316392&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 or just have the shirt untucked such as this: http://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3463481&cp=3075215.3075422.3075427 ?

Next question, whats better in which situation, a bright t-shirt with a some interesting design such as thishttp://www.kennethcole.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3555882&cp=3075215.3075422.3075429, or the clean button up type shirts ive been showing before?

Next question, glasses and watches, what do you think? Always wear them or only with certain outfits?
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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razkay said:
Wear a button down shirt and show off the belt.
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Thanks for the advice. Should I wear a t-shirt under it or show off the chest?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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