"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need help on closing the deal!!!

zx2not4u

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when i am out shopping and see a pretty cashier I will make sure I go threw her line. I am usually very friendly, and open, but still have some AFC in me. I have troble closing the deal. My plan is to wright a note to the cashier that says

" Hey my name is Bob and I think your attractive, and would like to get to know you here is my cell # call me!"

any Ideas on how I can refine this let me know thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by zx2not4u
when i am out shopping and see a pretty cashier I will make sure I go threw her line. I am usually very friendly, and open, but still have some AFC in me. I have troble closing the deal. My plan is to wright a note to the cashier that says

" Hey my name is Bob and I think your attractive, and would like to get to know you here is my cell # call me!"

any Ideas on how I can refine this let me know thanks.

That little note is going to be thrown right into the trash.. If you actually have a good feeling going on just say hey whats your number or email or address however you like to communicate. Personally when I deal with a cashier or waitress I have a really high energy going on where I just am having fun joking around and flirting with her.
 

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Wow, back in my AFC days I remember giving a Senior my phone number when I was a Junior in high school. She told me she had lost it or some **** like that...never give out your phone number. It's easier to just ask for hers
 
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Accuse her of chargin u 2 much or somthing when u go through her line lol
 

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Tell her you need change for a dollar when you come back
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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