"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need help on closing the deal!!!

zx2not4u

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when i am out shopping and see a pretty cashier I will make sure I go threw her line. I am usually very friendly, and open, but still have some AFC in me. I have troble closing the deal. My plan is to wright a note to the cashier that says

" Hey my name is Bob and I think your attractive, and would like to get to know you here is my cell # call me!"

any Ideas on how I can refine this let me know thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by zx2not4u
when i am out shopping and see a pretty cashier I will make sure I go threw her line. I am usually very friendly, and open, but still have some AFC in me. I have troble closing the deal. My plan is to wright a note to the cashier that says

" Hey my name is Bob and I think your attractive, and would like to get to know you here is my cell # call me!"

any Ideas on how I can refine this let me know thanks.

That little note is going to be thrown right into the trash.. If you actually have a good feeling going on just say hey whats your number or email or address however you like to communicate. Personally when I deal with a cashier or waitress I have a really high energy going on where I just am having fun joking around and flirting with her.
 

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Wow, back in my AFC days I remember giving a Senior my phone number when I was a Junior in high school. She told me she had lost it or some **** like that...never give out your phone number. It's easier to just ask for hers
 
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Accuse her of chargin u 2 much or somthing when u go through her line lol
 

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Tell her you need change for a dollar when you come back
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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