"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need help on closing the deal!!!

zx2not4u

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when i am out shopping and see a pretty cashier I will make sure I go threw her line. I am usually very friendly, and open, but still have some AFC in me. I have troble closing the deal. My plan is to wright a note to the cashier that says

" Hey my name is Bob and I think your attractive, and would like to get to know you here is my cell # call me!"

any Ideas on how I can refine this let me know thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by zx2not4u
when i am out shopping and see a pretty cashier I will make sure I go threw her line. I am usually very friendly, and open, but still have some AFC in me. I have troble closing the deal. My plan is to wright a note to the cashier that says

" Hey my name is Bob and I think your attractive, and would like to get to know you here is my cell # call me!"

any Ideas on how I can refine this let me know thanks.

That little note is going to be thrown right into the trash.. If you actually have a good feeling going on just say hey whats your number or email or address however you like to communicate. Personally when I deal with a cashier or waitress I have a really high energy going on where I just am having fun joking around and flirting with her.
 

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Wow, back in my AFC days I remember giving a Senior my phone number when I was a Junior in high school. She told me she had lost it or some **** like that...never give out your phone number. It's easier to just ask for hers
 
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Accuse her of chargin u 2 much or somthing when u go through her line lol
 

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Tell her you need change for a dollar when you come back
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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