"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need help like asap please guys

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Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Um.... Thats a basic scenario. Get sexual... I don't know what else to say... Um...

Hmm... You should know this. Kino her up a bit, but do it gradually. To escalate, you gotta take a risk. So start with hands, then move up to arm wrap-around, then brush your arm against her breast or a$$. Then hold her hands for a while longer than normal. Then flirt your a$$ off. Tonality now comes into play. Whisper crap in her ear. Play with her hair...

Now I don't know what kinda situation you'll be in, so don't follow any of this to a 'T'.

I shouldn't have even written that because its gonna throw you off. Just risk it dood. If she rejects you because you weren't smooth, who cares, oh well. Move on. There are other women. You will soon forget her, and then another women will pop up.

I don't know what else to say. You have been here way too long for me to be even saying any of this crap.

Someone is gonna bash me hard for this post and I don't blame 'em.

Good luck mate.
 

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lil hooligan said:
Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship

By what you said... there is pure sexual tension between you, i would just grab her and kiss her when nobody is there. ...there is no need to play games.
 

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Yeh il probably just go for it, anyone else got anymore opinions or is this the best way to go?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm kinda new to this and not really qualified to give advise, but I did go through something like this recently. There was also this girl who flirted with me big time. Kinda' like your girl. I did take a risk, eventually after much kino and went for the kiss, which she avoided. Things became very uncomfortable between us afterwards and there is a huge fear I have now that she will probably tell our mutual friends. So my advice is, yes, take a risk, but read her actions very well. If you can see that she's not ready for the kiss, then by all means, ABORT the mission. Not really that good at reading women's actions yet, but I'm getting better. Hope you're better at it than I am. Hope this helps some, too.
 

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Ok guys so you think u should just go for it?
 

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Read the full line I said I can't sort it out using my knowledge not that she is different oneitis n that
 

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Anything guys?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I still say read her actions. I know that "rejection is better than regret" but you see this woman on a regular basis, right? If you get rejected, that could make things very uncomfortable for you there. There are a lot of more experienced DJs here that can tell you all about reading a woman's moves.

Good luck.
 

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Cheers dude anyone got Linky or advice for reading girls movements / actions
 

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Anything guys I need help here
 

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Well to tonight she's been flirting with other lads (my mates) and all the while she's been looking at me and smiling, think this was a **** test I didn't do anything but played pool with her and she was smiling at me then also I haven't spoke much to her but been smiling a little when I notice her looking at me, you think ignoring her a little was the best thing to do?
 
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