"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need help like asap please guys

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Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Um.... Thats a basic scenario. Get sexual... I don't know what else to say... Um...

Hmm... You should know this. Kino her up a bit, but do it gradually. To escalate, you gotta take a risk. So start with hands, then move up to arm wrap-around, then brush your arm against her breast or a$$. Then hold her hands for a while longer than normal. Then flirt your a$$ off. Tonality now comes into play. Whisper crap in her ear. Play with her hair...

Now I don't know what kinda situation you'll be in, so don't follow any of this to a 'T'.

I shouldn't have even written that because its gonna throw you off. Just risk it dood. If she rejects you because you weren't smooth, who cares, oh well. Move on. There are other women. You will soon forget her, and then another women will pop up.

I don't know what else to say. You have been here way too long for me to be even saying any of this crap.

Someone is gonna bash me hard for this post and I don't blame 'em.

Good luck mate.
 

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lil hooligan said:
Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship

By what you said... there is pure sexual tension between you, i would just grab her and kiss her when nobody is there. ...there is no need to play games.
 

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Yeh il probably just go for it, anyone else got anymore opinions or is this the best way to go?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm kinda new to this and not really qualified to give advise, but I did go through something like this recently. There was also this girl who flirted with me big time. Kinda' like your girl. I did take a risk, eventually after much kino and went for the kiss, which she avoided. Things became very uncomfortable between us afterwards and there is a huge fear I have now that she will probably tell our mutual friends. So my advice is, yes, take a risk, but read her actions very well. If you can see that she's not ready for the kiss, then by all means, ABORT the mission. Not really that good at reading women's actions yet, but I'm getting better. Hope you're better at it than I am. Hope this helps some, too.
 

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Ok guys so you think u should just go for it?
 

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Read the full line I said I can't sort it out using my knowledge not that she is different oneitis n that
 

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Anything guys?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I still say read her actions. I know that "rejection is better than regret" but you see this woman on a regular basis, right? If you get rejected, that could make things very uncomfortable for you there. There are a lot of more experienced DJs here that can tell you all about reading a woman's moves.

Good luck.
 

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Cheers dude anyone got Linky or advice for reading girls movements / actions
 

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Anything guys I need help here
 

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Well to tonight she's been flirting with other lads (my mates) and all the while she's been looking at me and smiling, think this was a **** test I didn't do anything but played pool with her and she was smiling at me then also I haven't spoke much to her but been smiling a little when I notice her looking at me, you think ignoring her a little was the best thing to do?
 
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