"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need help like asap please guys

lil hooligan

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Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Um.... Thats a basic scenario. Get sexual... I don't know what else to say... Um...

Hmm... You should know this. Kino her up a bit, but do it gradually. To escalate, you gotta take a risk. So start with hands, then move up to arm wrap-around, then brush your arm against her breast or a$$. Then hold her hands for a while longer than normal. Then flirt your a$$ off. Tonality now comes into play. Whisper crap in her ear. Play with her hair...

Now I don't know what kinda situation you'll be in, so don't follow any of this to a 'T'.

I shouldn't have even written that because its gonna throw you off. Just risk it dood. If she rejects you because you weren't smooth, who cares, oh well. Move on. There are other women. You will soon forget her, and then another women will pop up.

I don't know what else to say. You have been here way too long for me to be even saying any of this crap.

Someone is gonna bash me hard for this post and I don't blame 'em.

Good luck mate.
 

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lil hooligan said:
Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship

By what you said... there is pure sexual tension between you, i would just grab her and kiss her when nobody is there. ...there is no need to play games.
 

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Yeh il probably just go for it, anyone else got anymore opinions or is this the best way to go?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm kinda new to this and not really qualified to give advise, but I did go through something like this recently. There was also this girl who flirted with me big time. Kinda' like your girl. I did take a risk, eventually after much kino and went for the kiss, which she avoided. Things became very uncomfortable between us afterwards and there is a huge fear I have now that she will probably tell our mutual friends. So my advice is, yes, take a risk, but read her actions very well. If you can see that she's not ready for the kiss, then by all means, ABORT the mission. Not really that good at reading women's actions yet, but I'm getting better. Hope you're better at it than I am. Hope this helps some, too.
 

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Ok guys so you think u should just go for it?
 

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Read the full line I said I can't sort it out using my knowledge not that she is different oneitis n that
 

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Anything guys?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I still say read her actions. I know that "rejection is better than regret" but you see this woman on a regular basis, right? If you get rejected, that could make things very uncomfortable for you there. There are a lot of more experienced DJs here that can tell you all about reading a woman's moves.

Good luck.
 

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Cheers dude anyone got Linky or advice for reading girls movements / actions
 

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Anything guys I need help here
 

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Well to tonight she's been flirting with other lads (my mates) and all the while she's been looking at me and smiling, think this was a **** test I didn't do anything but played pool with her and she was smiling at me then also I haven't spoke much to her but been smiling a little when I notice her looking at me, you think ignoring her a little was the best thing to do?
 
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