"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need help like asap please guys

lil hooligan

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Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Um.... Thats a basic scenario. Get sexual... I don't know what else to say... Um...

Hmm... You should know this. Kino her up a bit, but do it gradually. To escalate, you gotta take a risk. So start with hands, then move up to arm wrap-around, then brush your arm against her breast or a$$. Then hold her hands for a while longer than normal. Then flirt your a$$ off. Tonality now comes into play. Whisper crap in her ear. Play with her hair...

Now I don't know what kinda situation you'll be in, so don't follow any of this to a 'T'.

I shouldn't have even written that because its gonna throw you off. Just risk it dood. If she rejects you because you weren't smooth, who cares, oh well. Move on. There are other women. You will soon forget her, and then another women will pop up.

I don't know what else to say. You have been here way too long for me to be even saying any of this crap.

Someone is gonna bash me hard for this post and I don't blame 'em.

Good luck mate.
 

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lil hooligan said:
Well guys it seems I may have a problem which normally I can deal from the threads iv seen or experience iv had with but she is different, but I don't know why just seems it

Anyway here's the lowdown, I'm in the army ( British ) undergoing trade training and she was at my other training also but we didn't speak much but now we speak quite alot and she is giving signs like flirting etc. 

She does have a reputation to being a SL4G but I either just want sex or a possible relationship if I can what should I do

Also a little insight about just one thing that happened earlier, I was joking about with my mate like hitting each other and she stood infront of me and said to my mate don't hurt him but while rubbing her ass against my D1CK and she knew that I knew but then I had to go back to my accommodation so what do you guys think

I will definatly see her tomorrow also she goes to the gym alot so I was wondering if trying to arrange to go with her and kino etc.

Biggest question though will it be just sex or possible relationship

By what you said... there is pure sexual tension between you, i would just grab her and kiss her when nobody is there. ...there is no need to play games.
 

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Yeh il probably just go for it, anyone else got anymore opinions or is this the best way to go?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm kinda new to this and not really qualified to give advise, but I did go through something like this recently. There was also this girl who flirted with me big time. Kinda' like your girl. I did take a risk, eventually after much kino and went for the kiss, which she avoided. Things became very uncomfortable between us afterwards and there is a huge fear I have now that she will probably tell our mutual friends. So my advice is, yes, take a risk, but read her actions very well. If you can see that she's not ready for the kiss, then by all means, ABORT the mission. Not really that good at reading women's actions yet, but I'm getting better. Hope you're better at it than I am. Hope this helps some, too.
 

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Ok guys so you think u should just go for it?
 

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Read the full line I said I can't sort it out using my knowledge not that she is different oneitis n that
 

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Anything guys?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I still say read her actions. I know that "rejection is better than regret" but you see this woman on a regular basis, right? If you get rejected, that could make things very uncomfortable for you there. There are a lot of more experienced DJs here that can tell you all about reading a woman's moves.

Good luck.
 

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Cheers dude anyone got Linky or advice for reading girls movements / actions
 

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Anything guys I need help here
 

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Well to tonight she's been flirting with other lads (my mates) and all the while she's been looking at me and smiling, think this was a **** test I didn't do anything but played pool with her and she was smiling at me then also I haven't spoke much to her but been smiling a little when I notice her looking at me, you think ignoring her a little was the best thing to do?
 
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