"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There's a girl I have been briefly chatting with online, she lives about an 1 hour away from me. We don't know each other that well but I'm sure we'd click. I may have planned a meeting too soon. Anyway I invited her to a sports game and she said she had family plans (tradition) to go up to the mountains, whether or not this is true she said she couldn't go but still wants to get together for coffee, etc. Well I couldn't go to the sports game either, something came up so the tickets are still good. I kind of want to ask her to go to another game at a later time, but to me it sounds like a weak, desparate second attempt. What would you do? Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would just go grab some coffee or what not with her, and if that goes well, then ask her to the next sports game.
 
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Take a friend then tell her what a good time she missed out on. Have coffee with her later. You don't even know this chick yet.
 
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EdHunter said:
I would just go grab some coffee or what not with her, and if that goes well, then ask her to the next sports game.
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Yeah, I spent some time thinking about it and coincidently this is what I decided to do even before you wrote, but thanks anyway Ed, I agree.
 
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