"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's a girl I have been briefly chatting with online, she lives about an 1 hour away from me. We don't know each other that well but I'm sure we'd click. I may have planned a meeting too soon. Anyway I invited her to a sports game and she said she had family plans (tradition) to go up to the mountains, whether or not this is true she said she couldn't go but still wants to get together for coffee, etc. Well I couldn't go to the sports game either, something came up so the tickets are still good. I kind of want to ask her to go to another game at a later time, but to me it sounds like a weak, desparate second attempt. What would you do? Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would just go grab some coffee or what not with her, and if that goes well, then ask her to the next sports game.
 
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Take a friend then tell her what a good time she missed out on. Have coffee with her later. You don't even know this chick yet.
 
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EdHunter said:
I would just go grab some coffee or what not with her, and if that goes well, then ask her to the next sports game.
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Yeah, I spent some time thinking about it and coincidently this is what I decided to do even before you wrote, but thanks anyway Ed, I agree.
 
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