"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need help impressing my boss.

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I recently started my new job at this large accounting firm and really want to be on good terms with my boss. I heard from a lot of my office buddies that she can be really demanding and will usually assign a lot of overtime hours for employees that work hard. Since my wife just gave birth to our second baby girl, I really need those extra hours to earn more money.

Like I said, it’s a big company so the higher ups won’t really notice you if you don’t put in the effort or have been there long enough. My question now is, how do I impress my boss to get those extra hours? Any good tips for getting the attention of Lima women?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Spaz

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
 

mrgoodstuff

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
So if he has abundance of confidence and more enlightened than his "boss" he should marginalize it and reduce it for her?
 

theemployee

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
LMAO! :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spaz

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That I would do, but I need some extra hours for extra money...
To get attention, u need 2 be different then the rest, a special sort of fella.

But since u r a newbie in the office I don't recommend u do so.

Settle in 1st, act normal around the rest of ur office mates. Get ur office mates to respect u 1st. That's important. Once that's achieved then you can go about impressing ur lady boss.
 

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Get a 2nd source of income going. Some side work. Selling stuff on Ebay or handyman. Just a thought.
 

greatsnake

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By getting on her good side, you mean at a personal level or professional level? Lol
 

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Don't impress anyone . Be reliable, be responsible, do your job .
Yes to the above

Be Alpha and show leadership.
Show you’re a self starter.
That you can work alone.
Always meet your deadlines.
Don’t try to get into her pants. Office relationships and plates are messy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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