"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need help impressing my boss.

theemployee

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I recently started my new job at this large accounting firm and really want to be on good terms with my boss. I heard from a lot of my office buddies that she can be really demanding and will usually assign a lot of overtime hours for employees that work hard. Since my wife just gave birth to our second baby girl, I really need those extra hours to earn more money.

Like I said, it’s a big company so the higher ups won’t really notice you if you don’t put in the effort or have been there long enough. My question now is, how do I impress my boss to get those extra hours? Any good tips for getting the attention of Lima women?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Spaz

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
 

mrgoodstuff

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
So if he has abundance of confidence and more enlightened than his "boss" he should marginalize it and reduce it for her?
 

theemployee

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
LMAO! :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spaz

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That I would do, but I need some extra hours for extra money...
To get attention, u need 2 be different then the rest, a special sort of fella.

But since u r a newbie in the office I don't recommend u do so.

Settle in 1st, act normal around the rest of ur office mates. Get ur office mates to respect u 1st. That's important. Once that's achieved then you can go about impressing ur lady boss.
 

redskinsfan92

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Get a 2nd source of income going. Some side work. Selling stuff on Ebay or handyman. Just a thought.
 

greatsnake

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By getting on her good side, you mean at a personal level or professional level? Lol
 

GT40

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Don't impress anyone . Be reliable, be responsible, do your job .
Yes to the above

Be Alpha and show leadership.
Show you’re a self starter.
That you can work alone.
Always meet your deadlines.
Don’t try to get into her pants. Office relationships and plates are messy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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