So im in Hs im a sophmore and theres this girl that i go out with. so we only have one class together but we see each other a lot in the hallways for some reason when were in school it feels like she tries to avoid me and when i try to kiss her on the lips she tilts her head away so i only kiss the edge of her lips and her cheek. the weird thing though is that outside of school we make out and everything so i dont understand wtf is going on. my conclusion is that shes embarrased that we go out and in that case shouldnt i break off immidiately?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Need Help Hs problem
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Some people don't like to kiss in public. She also may be embarrassed to be with you or feel weird if people she know watches or have some fear that if others she know see it will spread and people she doesn't want to know find out about it (parents, ex, etc) one of other many different things. Who knows.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Welcome to dealing with women, kid. They're not logical, and you frequently will not understand what they are thinking. If you ask them what they are thinking, it only makes things worse, because they're never going to be able to tell you with words. It's best to focus on actions. If she will do what you want away from school, then don't worry too much about how she acts at school.
She probably has anxiety over people thinking she's a slvt if she's seen kissing guys at school. It's normal and nothing to worry about.
She probably has anxiety over people thinking she's a slvt if she's seen kissing guys at school. It's normal and nothing to worry about.