So im in Hs im a sophmore and theres this girl that i go out with. so we only have one class together but we see each other a lot in the hallways for some reason when were in school it feels like she tries to avoid me and when i try to kiss her on the lips she tilts her head away so i only kiss the edge of her lips and her cheek. the weird thing though is that outside of school we make out and everything so i dont understand wtf is going on. my conclusion is that shes embarrased that we go out and in that case shouldnt i break off immidiately?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Some people don't like to kiss in public. She also may be embarrassed to be with you or feel weird if people she know watches or have some fear that if others she know see it will spread and people she doesn't want to know find out about it (parents, ex, etc) one of other many different things. Who knows.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Welcome to dealing with women, kid. They're not logical, and you frequently will not understand what they are thinking. If you ask them what they are thinking, it only makes things worse, because they're never going to be able to tell you with words. It's best to focus on actions. If she will do what you want away from school, then don't worry too much about how she acts at school.
She probably has anxiety over people thinking she's a slvt if she's seen kissing guys at school. It's normal and nothing to worry about.
She probably has anxiety over people thinking she's a slvt if she's seen kissing guys at school. It's normal and nothing to worry about.