So im in Hs im a sophmore and theres this girl that i go out with. so we only have one class together but we see each other a lot in the hallways for some reason when were in school it feels like she tries to avoid me and when i try to kiss her on the lips she tilts her head away so i only kiss the edge of her lips and her cheek. the weird thing though is that outside of school we make out and everything so i dont understand wtf is going on. my conclusion is that shes embarrased that we go out and in that case shouldnt i break off immidiately?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some people don't like to kiss in public. She also may be embarrassed to be with you or feel weird if people she know watches or have some fear that if others she know see it will spread and people she doesn't want to know find out about it (parents, ex, etc) one of other many different things. Who knows.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Welcome to dealing with women, kid. They're not logical, and you frequently will not understand what they are thinking. If you ask them what they are thinking, it only makes things worse, because they're never going to be able to tell you with words. It's best to focus on actions. If she will do what you want away from school, then don't worry too much about how she acts at school.
She probably has anxiety over people thinking she's a slvt if she's seen kissing guys at school. It's normal and nothing to worry about.
She probably has anxiety over people thinking she's a slvt if she's seen kissing guys at school. It's normal and nothing to worry about.