Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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need help how to make a woman feel special?????

Will900

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how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Will900 said:
how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
Hmmm. Since you've been dating a year and a half, you should already be doing some of these things, to a small extent.

1) Bring her into your world just a little. (watch the potential stalkers though) I was flattered when a woman has told me she's really wanted to see me at one of my gigs, when I perform. First public gig I get (I was getting public gigs all the time before I met her... now it's all private parties that I can't invite her to... what the heck?), she's invited. I find it really cool that she wants to see a part of my world. First chick who's wanted to be supportive like that.

2) Treat her well. Don't kiss up to her, and don't be a pushover, but treat her well.

3) Do something to show you put some thought into a date. Romantic... the "opening the door for her" type of stuff. The great women will appreciate that. I'm told they'll love beiing treated that way. Don't chew her food for her, and don't be obsessed about it, but often, it seems like the little things go over well.
 

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Sit her in a wheelchair and spoon feed her.

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Don't forget to change her colostomy bag.
 

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And give her an IV.

sorry, i been watching Scrubs bro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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