"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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need help how to make a woman feel special?????

Will900

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how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mental

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Will900 said:
how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
Hmmm. Since you've been dating a year and a half, you should already be doing some of these things, to a small extent.

1) Bring her into your world just a little. (watch the potential stalkers though) I was flattered when a woman has told me she's really wanted to see me at one of my gigs, when I perform. First public gig I get (I was getting public gigs all the time before I met her... now it's all private parties that I can't invite her to... what the heck?), she's invited. I find it really cool that she wants to see a part of my world. First chick who's wanted to be supportive like that.

2) Treat her well. Don't kiss up to her, and don't be a pushover, but treat her well.

3) Do something to show you put some thought into a date. Romantic... the "opening the door for her" type of stuff. The great women will appreciate that. I'm told they'll love beiing treated that way. Don't chew her food for her, and don't be obsessed about it, but often, it seems like the little things go over well.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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musclyjerk said:
Sit her in a wheelchair and spoon feed her.

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Don't forget to change her colostomy bag.
 

LA_Chico

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And give her an IV.

sorry, i been watching Scrubs bro
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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