"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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need help how to make a woman feel special?????

Will900

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how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mental

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Will900 said:
how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
Hmmm. Since you've been dating a year and a half, you should already be doing some of these things, to a small extent.

1) Bring her into your world just a little. (watch the potential stalkers though) I was flattered when a woman has told me she's really wanted to see me at one of my gigs, when I perform. First public gig I get (I was getting public gigs all the time before I met her... now it's all private parties that I can't invite her to... what the heck?), she's invited. I find it really cool that she wants to see a part of my world. First chick who's wanted to be supportive like that.

2) Treat her well. Don't kiss up to her, and don't be a pushover, but treat her well.

3) Do something to show you put some thought into a date. Romantic... the "opening the door for her" type of stuff. The great women will appreciate that. I'm told they'll love beiing treated that way. Don't chew her food for her, and don't be obsessed about it, but often, it seems like the little things go over well.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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musclyjerk said:
Sit her in a wheelchair and spoon feed her.

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Don't forget to change her colostomy bag.
 

LA_Chico

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And give her an IV.

sorry, i been watching Scrubs bro
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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