"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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need help how to make a woman feel special?????

Will900

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how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Will900 said:
how do i make a woman feel special??? please help this girl is the girl of my dreams i have been goin out with her for like 1 year and a half now and i want to make her feel really special????
Hmmm. Since you've been dating a year and a half, you should already be doing some of these things, to a small extent.

1) Bring her into your world just a little. (watch the potential stalkers though) I was flattered when a woman has told me she's really wanted to see me at one of my gigs, when I perform. First public gig I get (I was getting public gigs all the time before I met her... now it's all private parties that I can't invite her to... what the heck?), she's invited. I find it really cool that she wants to see a part of my world. First chick who's wanted to be supportive like that.

2) Treat her well. Don't kiss up to her, and don't be a pushover, but treat her well.

3) Do something to show you put some thought into a date. Romantic... the "opening the door for her" type of stuff. The great women will appreciate that. I'm told they'll love beiing treated that way. Don't chew her food for her, and don't be obsessed about it, but often, it seems like the little things go over well.
 

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Sit her in a wheelchair and spoon feed her.

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Don't forget to change her colostomy bag.
 

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And give her an IV.

sorry, i been watching Scrubs bro
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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