"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

need help hitting on bartender

NickBe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2007
Messages
506
Reaction score
2
Since he has nothing to lose he might aswell give his number
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

a-rookie

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2006
Messages
22
Reaction score
0
Location
upper west side, NY
dude i'm working on weekends as a bartender,
(yes i did go to bartending school )
well
1) don't go alot of times to ask her for a drink. you'll bore her, she's busy making money.
2) go for the kill almost when you're about to bounce to another place, always have a back-up place to go. don't complimen t too much OK.
ASk her for a 007 drink, you know:
absolut orange citron vodka, orange juice, 7 up = 007

3) follow LIl devil little conversation.practice to get it right then make eye contact, when you trying out the drink in front of her.
"Hmm, it's.... refreshing, nice , you didn't undercount "
(you building anticipation , she will look at you when you say that )


4) Ask her then "Hey ,I gotta go my friend's hosting a party at this other club thanks for the double 0, then do the deangelo technique of turning her digits, no email and tell her "maybe get together after work and maybe you'll get lucky ... share recipes." (you breaking the ice barrier bartender-customer and not being intimidated by her, by then she'll be curious who you are, keeping her Dangling...oohh)

5) You can modify this OK doesn't have to be word for word, ****y smile and eye contact After you get the drink will determine .

Guys what do think?
 

jigga23

Banned
Joined
Feb 23, 2005
Messages
313
Reaction score
0
i went back to the bar she was at. but i was kind of fvcked up. she knows two of my roomates. one was talking to her and we ordered a drink but i just sat at the bar with my back sort of towards her.

as for giving my number ive done it before and the girl usually calls never tried it with a bartender but will try it ill probably just buy a drink say whats up flirt real fast shell bring back the tab ill write my number on a coaster and write call me.
 
Top